You can create a registry almost anyplace from a local hardware store to a nationwide department store to an online vendor that never requires you to leave the house. And while gift registries used to be exclusively for household items, it’s now common for engaged couples to register for anything from household items to honeymoon registry,

The most important thing to consider in deciding where to register is choosing a store whose products you enjoy. You should also consider the needs of your guests when deciding where to register. If you have many out-of-province relatives, registering at your small-town gift shop won’t help them decide on a gift, and if you create a registry with a purely online company, your friends without computers will be at a disadvantage.

In many cases, it can be helpful to create registries at multiple stores so that you can compile a more varied list of gifts that you would like to receive while giving your friends and family more shopping options.

Creating a Registry 

After you’ve made the important decision of where to register, it’s time to actually create that registry. Some stores may require you to make an appointment while others simply ask you to check in at the customer service desk. Larger businesses will give you a gun or wand that allows you to scan UPC codes and set you free in the store. Smaller stores may simply have an employee create a list for you. Both the bride and groom-to-be should be involved in creating the gift registry; make a day of it and have fun choosing items to furnish your new life together.

But what should you include on the registry? Before you go shopping, take stock of the items you already own. Make a list of your must have items so that you can have a starting point in your registry search. If you’re fresh out of college, then you’ll probably need even the most basic household supplies. If it’s a second marriage, you probably have all the silverware and glasses you need. However, just because you already own something doesn’t mean you don’t need a new model. Did you buy the $10 off brand toaster for your first apartment? Then it might be time to upgrade.

Your registry should include items at a variety of prices. Don’t assume that anyone will want to spend “at least” a certain amount of money on a gift. But it’s also all right to splurge a little and ask for some things that you wouldn’t necessarily buy for yourself because your budget won’t allow it. It’s even all right to include a few “dream” items if you think that family and friends might want to go in together to buy one larger gift rather than several smaller ones.

Gift Registry Etiquette 

Once you’ve created your registry, many stores will give you a package of small cards that say, “I’m registered at _______,” or something to that effect. The idea is that you can slip these into your wedding invitation to let guests know where they can find your registry.

The best way to spread the word about your gift registry without offending anyone is to simply wait for someone to ask. You can also share the information with your close family and anyone who is planning a bridal shower in case more distant acquaintances bring the subject up with them. Since it’s typically assumed that couples will create a gift registry, if guests wish to purchase something from the list, they will find a way to learn the name of the store.

Some of the previously mentioned concerns involved in deciding where to register and what to put on the registry can also be considered matters of etiquette. By listing a variety of items at different price points, your guests won’t feel like you’re pressuring them to spend a certain amount of money. You’re also showing consideration for your guests in making sure that you are creating registries at stores that are convenient for them. A little thoughtfulness can go a long way in gift registry etiquette.

Everyone is always curious about what they should register for. Well, this little guide can help. Below is a list of the registering basics. You might just want to print it out, cross of what you already own, and then take the list with you when you go to register.
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8-12 Place settings including:
Plates, bowls, etc. Cups, mugs, etc.
​Flatware
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Cookware/Bakeware including:
Small and large skillets Small and large saucepans with lids
Crock-pot (4- to 6-quarts) Colander
Casserole dish Cookie sheet
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Small Kitchen Appliances including:
Blender Coffeemaker
Food processor Hand mixer
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Cutlery Basics:
Set of steak knives Chef's knife
Bread knife Paring knife
Utility knife Pair of kitchen shears
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Bedroom Basic:
Two to three sets of sheets Two to three pillowcases per pillow
Duvet or down comforter Bedcover
Mattress pads Blankets
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Bathroom Basics:
Six to eight bath towels Guest towels
Four washcloths Soap dish
Tooth brush holder Trash bin
Shower curtain​​